You are making the WRONG kind of money

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Did you know that money is of two kinds? I will tell you. This is my theory and this is how I look at money. There is a certain kind of money I do not enjoy and even you do not enjoy it, but you don’t know that there is a different kind of money and if you figure out how to make that, your life will take an altogether different meaning.

There are essentially two kinds of money.

1. Mercenary money

Stop being a mercenary. Be a missionary
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Mercenary money acts as the purpose of the activity and the only purpose. People who are mercenaries have essentially nothing else to motivate them in life, besides money. Whatever they do, they do it for money. They have no mission or purpose beyond making money.

The problem with this kind of money is that it doesn’t satisfy you inside. You may make a lot but you will not feel good about yourself. After sometime, when you have enjoyed the benefits that mercenary money accords to your life, you will realise that mercenary money is not really worth it.

When people work only for the money, consciously and unconsciously, they are doing themselves a massive disservice. The problem with the society is it sucks life and makes people who are making mercenary money respectable.

People who buy one thing to another to catch up with the Joneses become a part of their problem. There are a lot of problems with mercenary money.

A. It makes you feel that it is the purpose of life

Mercenary money brings your mind to the illusion that money by itself is the purpose of life and then your life starts revolving around money. Our lives revolve around whatever we think is the purpose of life. If we think money is the purpose of life, we do everything to make more money and hoard. Countless millions of people around the world are dying homeless and hungry in a world which is driven by money and people hoard money for generations of their progeny.

B. It makes the world a rather superficial place

Mercenary money makes the world a superficial place. What we need as human beings is not superficiality but depth. In order to build depth, we need purpose, meaning and understanding of why we do what we do. Unfortunately, the problem with a mercenary money based society is that it takes away the depth makes us rather a superficial set of people.

C. It makes you compete with everyone else

Since money is a tangible measure which leads to other tangible good like houses and cars, the run for money makes you compete with everyone else who is only running after money as well. It is an endless race which is rightfully called the rat race. A rat race is a meaningless race where everybody runs against each other to find nothing really significant at the end of the race.

The winner of the rat race gets emptiness in reward.

D. It makes you blind to your inner world

When you are focused on making money as the key objective in life, it makes you blind to your inner world, and you only focus on the exterior. You stop caring how you feel inside since feeding the externalities of life becomes your true objective. You start living a life trying to impress other people who are trying to impress you. You don’t pay attention to how you feel and rather use pretense to tell yourself and others that all this materialism is making you happy, when it isn’t.

E. You forget that money is a means to an end and not the end

This is one of the most important distinctions one needs to understand about money that money is a tool for life. It is not the end to life. The end is meaning, joy and happiness and money is one of the tools to achieve that end. Money is like a tool just like other tools for life.

However, it may be the most important tool since you can buy other tools with it.

F. It takes you away from your happiness

Mercenary money takes you away from your happiness rather than close to it. It makes you feel that you can buy happiness, when you can’t really buy it. You can buy a house, but you can’t buy relationships. You can buy things, but you can’t buy love. Mercenary money can’t buy love or happiness and so it takes you away from things you should really care about.

G. It makes you a prisoner of money

Mercenary money makes you a prisoner of itself. It makes you stuck in the rat race and thereby preventing you from doing the things that truly matter to your life. You become a prisoner of the comforts it buys and you feel that that is what life is about.

To conclude this section, mercenary money is vicious and takes your life in the wrong direction. Unfortunately, most of the world is headed in the wrong direction, and you don’t want to be one of them. You want to make the right kind of money, which is missionary or passion money.

2. Passion or missionary money

What’s passion money for fuck’s sake? Okay, this kind of money is the outcome of self-awareness, of passion. You cannot make passion money unless you make the effort to understand yourself and do what brings you to life.

You cannot arrive at your passion or your mission in life unless you make a conscious effort to understand yourself. You need to understand your strengths and weakness, your desires, your unique gifts to be able to make passion money. Not even 10% of the world makes passion money and that’s why most of the world is a miserable place.

Here are a few reasons why you should consider making passion money.

I. Work doesn’t seem like work

Do work that doesn't seem like work.
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Imagine you get up in the morning and you feel excited to work. What a beautiful world would that be? You look forward to work life since you do something that turns you on. Work doesn’t feel like work anymore but rather it feels like play. You look forward to it, since you enjoy it and want to do it. In fact, you love it so much that you can’t not do the work that you love so much.

II. Your time will take a different meaning

You will not hate Mondays anymore. You will look forward to all days of the week since you enjoy what you do, and weekends are another useful break from the schedule that you enjoy. Your time would take a different meaning since you would be moving from one state of happiness and pleasure to another.

III. You will find meaning in your work

When you make passion money, money is an output from it and you do it because you think it is meaningful work, which makes the world a better place in a small or a large way. You find meaning in your work and it doesn’t seem empty anymore, like it used to, when you worked only for the money.

IV. You would want to make money to use it in your purpose

Money is not a good or a bad thing. It is a tool and the usefulness or the uselessness of money is determined by how you use it. When you make passion money, you would want to use it as fuel for your purpose. People who make passion money are driven by purpose.

V. You will make the world a better place

Passionate people make the world a better place. Just look around your heroes. They entrepreneurs, the writers, the comedians. They are all passionate people who do stuff they love, and make the world a little better than they found it. Wouldn’t you want to do it as well?

VI. Less passion money would make you happier than more mercenary money

In the beginning, when you start your attempts to make passion money, you will not make a lot of it. It takes time, passion, consistency and persistence to turn your passion into a vocation so that you can make some money off it.

But, as someone who has experienced it, I guarantee that you would find more joy in money that you make doing something that you love than the money you made without any emotional attachment, even if there is less of it.

It just feels amazing to know that you could just do something that you enjoy naturally and make money off it. The thought itself makes you a better and a happier person. It frees you from the shackles of painful and monotonous work.

Most people do not try to find their passion and follow it because they are not willing to invest the effort it takes to do the work. It is not easy to make your passion your vocation, but it is definitely worth the effort.

VII. You would enjoy the things you buy with passion money way more than those bought with mercenary money

Why is that so? When you buy things with passion money, you have already taken care of your inner world. You don’t feel miserable inside and hence you are not buying things to cover up for the misery inside. Anything you buy with passion money would make you happier because you know that you made that money with work that doesn’t even feel like work.

VIII. You would not be driven by materialism

You have already rejected the idea of mercenary money and hence money by itself wouldn’t drive you. You would be driven by things that are way deeper than a life driven by mindless materialism.

IX. You would be happy

Like I say all the time, happiness lives inside of you. When you make passion money, you would be driven by yourself, your strengths, your sense of purpose and meaning. It would make life a different and a deeper experience for you than for people who live for money and live a mercenary existence. Since I can’t give you a better reason than your happiness, this is where making passion money would lead to- your joy.

To conclude, I would urge you to find your passion, no matter what your stage of life is. I would urge you to understand yourself and spend time in introspection and self-reflection. When you do that, you would find your passion and your purpose. Once you find those, you can start moving in that direction. It’s a different kind of a life waiting for you. A life where money is only a tool to make the world a better place and not the destination. A life where your days have joy because you do work that you enjoy and are passionate about.

So, stop making mercenary money. Move in the direction of passion, of love, of meaning and of happiness. When you make money doing what you love, that money is way more valuable than mercenary money because it brings joy, meaning and happiness to your life. It takes away the pain of work and makes work worthy and enjoyable. Wouldn’t you want that?

Thank you for reading.

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I appreciate the time you spent in reading the blog and wish you happiness.

Love,

Amarvani

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