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Why is adult life so hard- 18 tips to survive adulthood

Adult life is hard. Why is adult life so (overwhelmingly) hard, and is there anything we can do about it, to make the burden a little lighter? Hey, I feel what you feel. If you are an adult, with the burden of life all over you every day, I feel what you feel. Adult life is overwhelmingly hard. They don’t teach us in schools and … Continue reading Why is adult life so hard- 18 tips to survive adulthood

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What does it mean to be a man in the 21st century?

What does it mean to be a man- Rudyard Kipling perhaps started this whole thing- the be a man business. Why does the world make about so much about the million definitions of being a man, and why do we have to make life so fucking hard for ourselves. Alright, perhaps I am writing this piece for my fellow men, and so I will use … Continue reading What does it mean to be a man in the 21st century?

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How to improve your mental health (royally fuck it up: satire)

Since the last few years, everyone is talking about how to improve your mental health. It makes me anxious to think about the anxiety in the society (that rhymes), about something as basic as learning how to fix your mental health, when you can easily mess it up. Why do you need good mental health, anyway? Are you mad, or what? I warn you. If … Continue reading How to improve your mental health (royally fuck it up: satire)

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How to deal with rejection – 10 step framework

Rejection happens to all of us and it is part of the normal course of life. Rejection is hard because quite often, we don’t know why we have been rejected. However, the mental framework in this post can help anyone how to deal with rejection without causing self-harm. I hope this is helpful for anyone who is trying to learn how to handle rejection. Continue reading How to deal with rejection – 10 step framework

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How to find hope- 17 ways to find hope when you feel hopeless

The purpose of writing this was to find creative ways of finding hope so that hope doesn’t become a fuzzy thing that we have no control over, but a mental framework through which we can find it, and feel it in our hearts. I hope this helps you get started on your journey of finding hope and happiness in your life. Continue reading How to find hope- 17 ways to find hope when you feel hopeless